tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11022879.post6759331854387791421..comments2024-03-27T03:25:08.267-07:00Comments on Life in the Shoe: What Say You?Dorcashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07050605764466835485noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11022879.post-22575364233334963422009-01-23T14:00:00.000-08:002009-01-23T14:00:00.000-08:00Kathy you spoke for alot of us. We all face those ...Kathy you spoke for alot of us. We all face those human insecurities. You though, are going to be able to overcome them because you can clearly recognize your weaknesses, thats more then half the battle. Now, when you are doing for others, focusing on the doing it will be amazing how those nagging little insecurities will diminsh. Exercise your servant's heart.Also know that you are not alone and what the others stated about a need and an acceptance of HIM will fill that hole in your heart. Also if he was such a jerk, get on your knees and thank the Lord that ex is no longer in your life. Keep us posted Kathy because I needed to hear you and what I wrote also. Blessings!LisaK1https://www.blogger.com/profile/10850811827847365740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11022879.post-23707519778828403952009-01-21T21:46:00.000-08:002009-01-21T21:46:00.000-08:00from one person dealing with a breakup to another-...from one person dealing with a breakup to another--the only way to get through it, is to realize the unconditional love and acceptance of someone greater than the person you lost--and the only person who fits that description is Jesus Christ, because everyone has their faults, and everyone will fail you at some point, except Him.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11022879.post-71005705296691624572009-01-19T18:37:00.000-08:002009-01-19T18:37:00.000-08:00I can identify with where you are, I have felt and...I can identify with where you are, I have felt and struggled often with many similar insecurities. And my ability to lay them to rest and live peacefully and joyfully despite my ups and downs has come from one place alone, and that is a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, my Lord and Saviour. I know that is not necessarily a popular answer or one that people want to hear, but since you asked, I suppose you can handle it and as we all are, you are free to take it or leave it. I just want to encourage you...if you are willing to cast all your cares upon Him, He WILL care for you. Its tried and true!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11022879.post-51475087822658569632009-01-16T17:53:00.000-08:002009-01-16T17:53:00.000-08:00At the risk of sounding harsh, I would advise not ...At the risk of sounding harsh, I would advise not talking about her insecurities to people she's just trying to get to know. A key tenet of my Southern upbringing is that it's unattractive to talk about being unattractive (physically or otherwise). Good luck, Kathy! Lots of people have been where you are.Anghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01731111353035934239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11022879.post-47682390542822967142009-01-16T12:47:00.000-08:002009-01-16T12:47:00.000-08:00In my experience (only 68 yrs so far),if you want ...In my experience (only 68 yrs so far),if you want to be liked by others, you must like YOURSELF first. If YOU don't like YOU, others can pick up on that. If you are comfortable with who you are you will be less likely to obsess over the things that Kathy appears to be concerned about. This may sound over simplified, but it is a place to start.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com